The 3 Dangerous Phases of Job Searching (And How to Avoid Them)
- Sarah Bryer
- Apr 23
- 2 min read
Looking for a job can be a journey filled with ups and downs. Unfortunately, for many people, this journey takes them through three distinct phases—each more challenging than the last. Let’s break them down and, more importantly, discuss how to avoid the pitfalls that can derail your job search.

Phase One: Hopeful and Selective
At the start of a job search, most people are optimistic. They’re selective about the jobs they apply for, carefully researching companies and roles to ensure a perfect fit. Applications are thoughtful, and the effort put into tailoring CVs and cover letters is high.
It’s a great starting point, but if responses don’t come quickly, frustration begins to creep in.
Phase Two: Frustrated and Settling
After tens of applications with no responses or feedback, things start to shift. The time and energy spent tailoring applications feel wasted, and people begin applying for roles that are “just okay.”
Applications become faster, and the quality starts to slip. The enthusiasm that once drove the job search turns into a sense of obligation.
Phase Three: Desperate and Careless
This is the most dangerous phase.
At this point, people are applying for anything—regardless of salary, fit, or even interest. Applications are rushed, and attention to detail disappears because, frankly, it feels like no one is paying attention anyway.
This phase is where hope dwindles, and the emotional toll becomes severe. It can lead to financial struggles and even losing possessions or housing.
How to Avoid the Job Search Spiral
The key to avoiding these phases lies in strategy and consistency. Here’s what you need to do:
Better Quality CVsYour CV must be tailored forensically for each job. This means analyzing the job description, identifying key skills and requirements, and ensuring your CV reflects them.
A Referral PointWhenever possible, try to connect with someone within the business. A referral can significantly increase your chances of getting noticed.
Follow UpDon’t let your application disappear into the void. Following up shows initiative and keeps your name top of mind for recruiters.
Need Help?
If you’re feeling stuck in your job search or find yourself slipping into Phase Three, don’t wait until it’s too late. I can help you create a tailored CV, develop a strategic job search plan, and regain control of your career.
📩 Get in touch today or visit my website to book a free discovery call. Let’s turn your job search around and get you back on track.
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